I see from your other comment in this thread that you had a partner who was addicted to porn, which resulted in a dead bedroom. It sucks that you went through that, but you should probably refrain from projecting your own insecurities here.
Comments like this should be downvoted TBH.
There is nothing in this post to suggest porn addiction whatsoever. That’s an assumption you made all by yourself, solely based on your own biases.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
Simply move on and find a partner whose values align more with yours. That’s the key. But don’t be judgmental in the process, you know?
Some men are asexual. Some men have naturally low libidos. Some men have medical conditions that erase their libidos. Some men are on medications that erase their libidos. Just like women, there are a multitude of reasons why a man might not be interested in sex. And yes, porn addiction can certainly be one of them.
The dude just isn’t into sex. But that doesn’t mean he isn’t a good person or has a porn addiction or is gay. Some people just really are not into sex.
Are there any examples of outdated values in the Bible?
We (non sexual people) do exist and we don’t deserve to be dismissed in society just because we don’t value sex as a necessity in our daily lives.
I’m honestly so disappointed with this comment section. Most people are telling you that he has a porn addiction, might be gay, is a bad partner etc.
Personally I am one of them. In every relationship I’ve ever been in (even in high school, even in young adulthood) the sex is “interesting” for first few months to a year (if that) and then I just become non sexual 🤷🏻♀️ It doesn’t mean that I have a porn addiction. It doesn’t mean I’m a lesbian. It legit just means sex is not even in the top 10 of my priorities for a good relationship (meaning, that I do not require sex as a condition of me being happy in a relationship). This seems to be an uncommon feeling though.
Why do men love to stink/being smelly?
With all that said, I would say that if you guys are happy otherwise, and the only issue is sex, then please give him some grace and realize that he might just be one of these kinds of people. And he might not know how to say it. Because when we do tell our partners this feeling, it does become an issue. So he might just be trying to hide it.
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